{"id":486,"date":"2009-03-11T05:27:54","date_gmt":"2009-03-11T13:27:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bluepyramid.org\/storey\/archives\/486"},"modified":"2009-03-11T05:27:54","modified_gmt":"2009-03-11T13:27:54","slug":"ten-weeks-notice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bluepyramid.org\/storey\/archives\/486","title":{"rendered":"Ten Weeks Notice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Everything&#8217;s back out in the open.  I&#8217;m leaving Glide, my place of employ for a staggering three years, on or about May 15th.  Emily and I will be moving some indeterminate number of miles east (between 2,800-5,400) this summer for Emily&#8217;s fall enrollment in a school to be named later.<\/p>\n<p>So far, she&#8217;s only heard from Yale and she&#8217;s in (congratulations to those who cracked <a href=\"\/storey\/archives\/482\">the code<\/a> a few days ago).  We will be getting their financial package in the (physical) mail sometime this week, along with e-word from Columbia.  Then Princeton probably next week, with Harvard and Oxford a weekish thereafter.  While possible stipends and such will impact the final decision, Yale is looking like the clubhouse leader at the moment.  It was tied with Oxford as Em&#8217;s &#8220;first choice&#8221; and she can&#8217;t stop looking at New Haven apartments on Craigslist.  But a lot can happen in a month, so don&#8217;t count on Connecticut just yet.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, something of a West Coast Farewell Tour is emerging already, with trips to LA over the March-April border, Seattle in late May, and a return to LA in late June (though we may have started moving by then, so it may be a post-farewell return).  It&#8217;s going to be hard leaving the region of Earth whose land and people make me feel most comfortable (though Russia was close), but it&#8217;s clearly time to move on.  It&#8217;ll be approaching seven consecutive years by the time we leave and that is really longer than I was cut out to live anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>The next ten weeks are going to be emotional.  I wasn&#8217;t really prepared for the outpouring of shock and grief that people have shown me at work upon my announcement.  I told several people in person, sad that I couldn&#8217;t tell a couple more face-to-face because of conflicting schedules or untimely illness.  I was prepared to surprise some folks, but the rate at which people thought I would be staying for 5+ more years blew my mind.  I sent the All-Staff e-mail just after hours yesterday and have already gotten several responses, including a very moving visit and hug from someone I work with weekly at most.  Besides a nice big helping of guilt (perhaps my resident emotion), I just feel overwhelmed by this reaction and can&#8217;t even imagine how much more I&#8217;m going to feel today when most people actually find out.  It&#8217;s one thing to be able to intellectually articulate that a lot of key people might not see this coming ahead of time; quite another to witness the series of stunned faces and e-mails.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, even most Gliders can recognize it&#8217;s exciting and for the best.  Almost equal to the shock has been an incredible offering of support and energy for new adventures and opportunities in a new town.  Emily now has hundreds of people pulling for her, between her work, mine, and all our friends and family.  It&#8217;s good groundwork for the very foreseeable announcement of a move to Africa in 2011.  Though if you can accurately predict one thing about the year 2011, you are well ahead of pretty much everybody.<\/p>\n<p>And as that sentiment may indicate, this is only the beginning of the uncertainty.  The move and transition will be highly time-consuming.  We have to move the world&#8217;s least mobility-inclined cat across the country or even the Atlantic.  We have to potentially prepare for switching countries.  We have to find a new place to live, make decisions about how much stuff we really need, determine a whole new pattern for our lives that have really only been settled in one metro area.  And the exciting boundlessness of possibility still lingers, more tantalizing than scary, beckoning toward a multifarious future whose options will narrow, but slowly.<\/p>\n<p>People, this is an exciting time to be alive.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everything&#8217;s back out in the open. I&#8217;m leaving Glide, my place of employ for a staggering three years, on or about May 15th. Emily and I will be moving some indeterminate number of miles east (between 2,800-5,400) this summer for Emily&#8217;s fall enrollment in a school to be named later. 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